I was at an event recently where a woman approached me about her Network Marketing company, a very well know and established nutritional and weight loss company.  She was absolutely passionate about her company and went to great lengths to convince me how much I needed her products…..for health benefits, not for weight loss…just so we get that clear :)

I explained to her that I had actually been a natural health practitioner with my own clinic for 16 years, been involved with Nutritional companies in Network Marketing where we had marketed millions of dollars worth of product, that I had been taking supplements for more than 30 years, and was very knowledgeable on the subject.  I told her I had a worked out a very good regime for myself and my family in terms of health products and thanked her for her offer.

However she still persisted to tell me that the products offered by her company were the BEST, the MOST natural, the MOST researched, and that I should definitely use them in preference to what I currently used…and that everyone in my company should also be using the products and why not promote her products as well to all our members.

Again I explained that I was a health professional for 16 years and that was very well versed in the subject and was VERY happy with what I was using.

She handed me her business card and said, “Just in case you change your mind make sure you join with me!”

I have to give her credit for her persistence however it is this often misguided approach that will have most people running in the opposite direction the next time they see you after this type of approach.

How does anyone really know THEIR company is the BEST?

What criteria do they use to measure which is best?  Can they prove it?  Does it matter?

Even if your company is better than mine that does not mean I will change or join your company.  People stay with companies for lots of reasons…..they had a great personal experience with the product, they like their sponsor, they reached a recognition level and do not want to lose that sense of achievement, or they simply do not want to change and have to start again.

I have seen lots of people succeed in companies that were obviously not the best and seen many more people fail in companies that were certainly amongst the best.

There is no doubt that you need to pick a company that has great products, compensation plan, people, potential and philosophy but even with all this it is YOU that needs to become the BEST if you are to succeed.

When I started Lekker International with our team I made it clear I was 100% committed to creating a company that was focused on creating an environment where every participant could be the best they could be.  I quickly realized that this was a process and NOT a destination.  I knew that we would have to develop a culture that started from within that permeated everything we do in order to attract like minded people who shared that vision.

Products and marketing plans can be changed every day and there is lots of evidence of companies in the market place where their only competitive advantage is we pay 5% more out in commissions than the others, or our product gives you 10% more anti-oxidant benefit.  They are only attractive until someone pays out 6% more than the others or their product gives 15% more anti-oxidant benef

Rather than tell people, “Your company is best”, tell them WHY you chose your company?

What made you believe that company is going to provide YOU with what you are looking for?  What is about that company that convinced you that it was worth you spending your hard earned money to join them, buy their products, and risk your reputation to tell others you’re involved with that company….and proud of it!

People are more impressed by authentic comments, by your story, than facts that can easily be disputed or questioned.

The truth is statements such as “My company is the best” or “My company is better than yours!” are empty, impossible to prove and very subjective.  And often you will just come up against someone who actually does know better than you and prove you wrong.

The best approach is…

1. I love my industry because…….tell YOUR story!

“It is the only industry where I can take a few hundred dollars or Euros and turn it in a life changing income in less than a year converting some of your spare time into more productive time.”

2. I love my company because…..tell YOUR story!

“I chose XXXX because I always wanted to work from home and travel and I saw they had a way I could achieve both with that company.”

The next time you make a statement that “Your company is the best”, ask yourself, “Do I really know that for a fact with 100% conviction” and is that really going to matter anyway to the person I am sharing my opportunity with.

People really want to know.

- can I make money with your company? (have others made money?)

- can they show me a way I can also be successful?

- will they help me?

- is it going to be fun to do?

If you answer this and tell your story you will go a long way to being a successful Network Marketer.

In my next blog I will share a great story of how I was prospected recently by someone that had invaluable lessons on how to AVOID wasting your time and being embarrassed!

Today I heard a great message at church about Chameleon Christians and I thought the same principles apply to how we conduct ourselves as leaders.

The key message was that often people change their view of the business opportunity they are involved in based on their circumstances and how they feel.

When everything is going well their belief and commitment to the business is good.  When it is not going well their belief and commitment is bad.

The reality is our journey in life and in business is always going to be full of differing circumstances however people want to follow leaders who are solid.

Just like a high rise building digs down to bedrock to lay a foundation we must establish what our core values and beliefs are commit to these no matter what the “weather” is in our lives.  Storms come and go in nature and in life but they never last forever and each one soon becomes a distant part of our past.

Chameleon leaders tend to change their behavior depending on who is around them.  They give a perception they are living a life based on core values but when there is no one around they often lose sight of those values.  It is vital that we demonstrate integrity which is about being consistent in our daily life.

It is often said that business is a ‘dog eat dog’ environment which is often used as an excuse to justify bad or unethical behavior in order to be successful.  The reality is we should act with the same consistency and integrity in our personal life as well as business life because sooner or later the inconsistency will be visible to all.

They key is to be a thermostat and not a thermometer!

Set the temperature in your life and business rather than measuring the temperature around you and changing your behavior based on that temperature.

In less than a month I launch Lekker International, a new company, that is the result of more than 20 years in the Network Marketing industry.

It has been a journey of struggles and victories.  Along the way there were many critics, many disbelievers, many who doubted and even close friends and family who kept saying, “Michael, when are you going to get a real job?”

On this journey I overcame a stutter, a speech impediment, that I could have easily used as an excuse for not succeeding in a business that involved so much verbal communication.  However I chose to change my identity from seeing myself as a “stutterer” to someone who “stutters occasionally” and along the way ended up being someone who has presented to tens of thousands of people around the world in more than 25 countries.

I had to overcome financial struggles losing everything more than once in order to experience success.  It’s in these times you realize what really matters in life and who are your most loyal friends.

Lekker International is the realization of a dream, not giving up, not listening to well meaning critics, and being patient.  Yes, patient. Few people would have waited 20 years to fulfill a dream but if the dream is big enough….and important enough, the wait is worth it.

In fact, I am glad I was patient because if I was honest with myself I was not ready until now.  They say their is NO substitute for experience and I had to experience a lot of things, GOOD and BAD, in order to gain the maturity, the wisdom, and the skill set to be able to launch a company that is destined to be great.

So again I encourage you NEVER, EVER give up on your dreams, no matter how far away they may appear right now.  It is the lows in our life that make us appreciate the highs. It is the challenges that make us stronger. Tehy say where strong winds blow, strong timbers grow!

Find your dream, write it down, keep expanding it, believe in the dream, and you can live your dream!

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